All Good Dogs…
11:34PM, February 20th, 2007
Shortly after my dad came home from work today I heard him bounce up the stairs. Standing firmly in the middle of my doorway he asked, quickly, “What are you doing?” I had barely opened my mouth when he continued, “Want to help me bury Jackson?” I paused. The conflicting messages weren’t uncommon. My dad was animated with high eyebrows but the words he spoke lacked an underlying confidence. He hid how upset he was with this bouncy exterior.
My dad had come home and discovered my dog of 13 years, Jackson, had died at the base of the stairs where my father exits the garage each day after arriving home. I joined him as we went into the garage to get a shovel and large iron rod used for breaking up clay. I saw Jackson lying as if he were asleep in the shade of the house. My dad leant over to pat him and call him a good boy with the shovel in his hand, as if he was expecting him to wake up and lick his hand.
“It’ll need to be deep,” my dad said as he scouted for a place in the ungrassed, lower part of the yard. With his head down he quickly dug a large whole in the dirt and red and yellow clay. I stood and watched as my dad murmured “… it’s a shame” and “… so sad.” I turned and watched as my dad picked Jackson up from where he was lying and put him in the hole. My dad then apologied to him for the great dishonour he was about to commit and speedily covered the body with the heavy lumps. I took a step backwards so I could only see the black fur of his body being covered and not his head.
I got a plastic bag to put his uneaten food in, emptied the water bowl and took his food bowls into the laundry to wash with hot water and placed his collar on the steps.
Telling my Mother an hour or two later, my dad kept repeating his sentiments and my mother obsessively speculated on how he might have died. In his sleep, or heart attack. Cancer or other ailment. She said she’d call my brother.
I felt uneasy, mostly because I was happy and sad. I was sad that he was no longer bouncing around the backyard, but also because my parents were so focussed on his death. I knew I will remember the way he moved, fetched and licked long after I have forgotten the image of his grave. I will remember his bark, the way he would lick your face when he held him, and even the the times he ran away. I will also remember that he lived for 13 years, was well loved by his family and despite fading vision and hearing in the last year, he was always an active and happy dog. In his death, the memory of his life is stronger.
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Oh Tyson, that is so sad and i’m really sorry .. animals are our friends and he was lucky to live with a big family. Greg xoxo
Comment by Tammy — February 21, 2007 @ 1:34 am
Sorry for your loss Tyson. Greg said it well, he certainly was lucky to live a long, active and hapy life. That’s a lovely photo of him, and some nice memories to have.
Comment by The Other Andrew — February 21, 2007 @ 10:16 am
I used to think having sentimentality for pets was stupid until I had to have one of my cats put down when he had a stroke and my other cat almost lost her eye after a fight but those two things made me realise that pets are more than just animals - they become part of the family.
Please accept my condolences on your loss.
Comment by Kevin — February 21, 2007 @ 1:16 pm
I’m so sorry to hear this. You know I loved the little guy. I’m so sad. *hugs* Thinking of you.
Comment by Minty — February 21, 2007 @ 2:54 pm
I’m so sorry to hear this, Tyson. It is always strange when pets die - hard to know how to feel/react, it’s not as overwhelmingly devastating as when a person does, but still they leave a real gap, especially when you’ve had years of companionship, as you obviously had with Jackson.
I also find burying them - or anything- almost unbearable so really felt for you there.
He listens when you tell him things,
There’s nothing you can’t say.
And unlike certain people,
You can teach him how to stay.
And if the world is giving you the blues,
He cheers you up by chewing up the news.
It’s things like that
That make you choose
A dog.
Comment by jellyfish — February 21, 2007 @ 4:55 pm
There’s only one thing I don’t like about pets - the fact that we can never understand what they think or why they do certain things. With that being said, the certain things they do give us reasons to love them and let them become a part of the family…and letting go of family will never be easy.
I feel for you buddy, really I do, and I feel for your family as well. I do hope, however, that your family doesn’t think about “replacing” him any time soon - he wasn’t the type that can ever be replaced.
…maybe he saw the photo of you in the nun’s outfit? Hopefully that made you smile somewhat. Take care.
Comment by AJ — February 21, 2007 @ 7:40 pm
Condolences for the loss of your dog. They are such great companions…especially to share a biscuit with.
take care
Comment by Kass — February 21, 2007 @ 10:41 pm
That’s so tough Tyson, he was too young.
Just don’t go around trying to fill his place in the family..
Comment by Penguin — February 23, 2007 @ 12:21 am
Thank you everyone for the comments. Sorry I’m not doing a personalised comment reply (this post only), but I do appreciate all your supportive words. I will also add that we are not looking to replace him, and will likely not get another dog, at least in the short-term. Jackson was a cool little guy with such a personality and energy, and we’ll always remember him.
Comment by Tyson — February 24, 2007 @ 1:23 am
Aw Ty! That’s sad :( And I never even got to meet him. Many hugs. xo
Comment by Zoe — March 1, 2007 @ 12:31 am
Tyson, So sorry to hear about your dog. I know its a little late, but I’m only now getting around to catching up on this years events.
I know how hard it is to lose a beloved pet. my own beautiful boy Cosmo was put down last week.
I hope that you still remember the wonderful times you had together.
x
Comment by Zoe — May 20, 2007 @ 6:29 pm